REJECTION –REDEFINED – REDIRECTED – REFORMED – REDISCOVERD
To many of you, still hurting with the rejection by your partner, it may sound weird that REJECTION IS REDIRECTION, to Something and Someone Better!!! But to accept that and to see the Larger picture, it will certainly take time and healing. When I say Healing, first we have to accept the situation and let go! As for you it will be rather better to be where you are Celebrated not Tolerated ! Isn’t It?
An excerpt you may resonate where love lead rejection
I remember how I felt when I found out the man I was dating with was two timing and to my surprise he felt no guilt to walk away into another girls arms! I felt my heart beat faster and harder as though I would faint with dizziness in shock! I could feel my tears welling up silently as the pain grew louder! Dumbstruck and stoned was all that I could feel at that moment. It felt like to slap him yet couldn’t say or do anything! My words and senses lost.
For few days I was numb to the world and oblivious to my surroundings. I was better alone with no calls to attend. But I was lost in my world of thoughts. It made me wonder what was missing in me ..where did I go wrong ? Why did he leave me for another one when our relationship seemed fine even though I had much to make it work! This relationship had come to be my Pride…My Saviour …My Honour …Like a Trophy won! But now looking back I realize how misfit it was! What a Blessing it was to have Let Go!
But before that I had much Learning & Unlearning to Do and that’s what we call DEALING WITH REJECTION!!!
And here’s what I learned from friends and various helpful sites
ACCEPTING THE SITUATION & THE PAIN
Don’t try to rush or brush the feeling away but don’t stay in that space for long either. It’s Okay to be Human. Accepting allows us to move on by accepting the reality, the end of the relationship that serves you no more!
NO BLAME GAME
Don’t go looking for reasons to justify the rejection. Don’t blame yourself nor think you are worthless! You are important and precious to someone around the corner of the world who may value and cherish you in his or her life!
FORGIVE & BE FREE
Express the Gratitude for the Experience as everyone is a Mirror , a Teacher who helps us look within and redirect our lives to someone and something better! Stay grateful come what may. Cherish the memories that were rewarding loving and nourishing and delete the rest in prayer of gratitude!
Find new passion, hobbies, interest that builds you. The world out there needs you. Keep reinventing yourself. Make I Me Myself Time for yourself (it’s the Best Gift You can have for Life time)! Meditate, as nothing transforms your inner & outer world like few minutes of meditation or creative visualization!
You are the Pulse of Life Source & Creative Force! Reconnect with yourself. Dance a Little, Shake Little, Sing A Little! Go Cheer someone as it not only brings a smile on another face but also raises your own energy. Join new Clubs & Meetups but don’t be in a rush to Date yet! Mingle while you are Happy Single! Life has just begun!
Go for a makeover, if you wish buy new fashion goods & accessories. Try a new hairstyle Pamper yourself ! Do a new look and take care of your Fitness. Your Radiant Appeal can turn many heads! Wear your smile wherever you Go.
Book yourself a getaway . It can help to Reflect & Reconnect with yourself. Far from the maddening crowd and questioning eyes. Centre and Realign your mind body and spirit in Nature. The world outside will teach you how lucky you are to be alive and throbbing! There’s so much to see and know. Rejection is not the end of the world..But to Die in Self Is!
Hug is the most purest gentlest way to heal self and others! Wrap your arms around yourself every morning and smile in front of the Mirror! Say you are Awesome Just the Way You Are! Make it your Mantra to Love Yourself First! Self Love is the answer to healing thyself!
Love Eat & Pray…There’s always Hope. Live Life Full Circle! Fill your world with Love . Be it your neighbours , old grandparents , children , lost friends , etc. Love is Unlimited let it Radiate from You! What You Give Out is What You Get !
Again, REMEMBER THIS TOO SHALL PASS….
IN THE END IT DOESN’T MATTER IF THE WORLD REJECTS YOU…WHAT MATTERS IS THAT YOU MUST NOT REJECT YOURSELF..