Co-Dependency Trappings

 Many are unaware that they are crippled in Co-dependent Relationships whether as friends, lovers or parents. Sacrificing & Victim-hood role plays, one being a Giver / Supporter against all odds and another seeking mercy, fearing responsibility or strength of their own life issues. EMOTIONAL TRIGGERS OF CO-DEPENDENT RELATIONSHIPS   A need for Approval and Recognition…

Wounded Childhood

Wounds hurts but the Good News is what has injured you is an opportunity that contains the seeds of your liberation! As parents we shape the lives of our children …and as children we borrowed much from our parents as role models.  A trauma with your mother or father is addressed as a “wound” because…

Sexual Wounds & Intimacy Issues

SEXUAL WOUNDS & INTIMACY ISSUES  Here’s a story of Sexual Abuse… A lady of 34yrs married for 5yrs sought an appointment as she had nightmares and intimacy issues too. She came through the door appearing very shy with a faint smile. As she settled down on the sofa I told her she can be completely…

DIVORCE…A New Beginning

DIVORCE ….A Transition Journey Begins Goodbyes are always painful. Situation gets worst when you have to bid goodbye to relationship in which you not only invested your mind, body and time but also your soul i.e. marriage. The after effects of divorce are often discussed but what a person goes through throughout the divorce process…

LOVE MAGNET TO WRONG MEN

ARE YOU A LOVE MAGNET ?… But your Love story never has a happy ending? Let’s not blame the Karma nor the man or the other woman who stole your lover away… No doubt it is frustrating and heart-breaking to find yourself in a pattern of unfulfilling and unhealthy relationships which leaves you hurt, confused,…

Married Man & You

Married Man & You…Dead End Affair! Falling in love is the best thing that can happen in one’s life. But this feeling can turn into a disaster if you fall for a married person. A disaster full of adventure and intensified feeling that can destroy you from the core. While talking to one of my…

Mother I Love You…

MOTHER ….I LOVE YOU SO MUCH …But it still Hurts! Let’s go down the Memory Lane…and take a moment to reflect on the kind of relationship you have or had with your mother. What did it look like? Feel like? Sound Like? Does it remind you of Good, Bad or Ugly times? Or maybe, a…

Unconventional Relationships & You

With changing times, the concept of relationship is also changing. It is not just about vows and commitment. Today’s youth is result orientated and impatient too. They have high dreams and they do not want any hindrance in their dreams or fantasies. Increasing number of divorce has given rise to various forms of unconventional relationships….

A Date With Yourself….One Reservation Please!

So it is Valentine’s Day in a couple of days and you still don’t have a person to go on a DATE with. Or did you just have a Breakup? Are you still cursing the Cupid for missing his arrow? Are you wondering how would you celebrate the day of Love? If you put your…

Mirroring You

“Each relationship you have with another person reflects the relationship you have with yourself.” – Alice Deville. MIRROR MIRROR ON THE WALL, WHO IS THERE? …. THE BEST OF ME THAT I SHINE FORTH OR THE WORST OF ME THAT I HIDE FROM? You love what is reflected back to you that you love within…