Dating Disasters

ARE YOU DATING YOUR UNMET CHILDHOOD NEEDS? 

Do you find yourself in relationships that leave you feeling unseen, anxious, or unfulfilled?
You’re not alone. Many people unknowingly choose partners who mirror their childhood wounds, hoping to heal what was once broken. But this cycle only leads to more pain—until you decide to break free.

As a Relationship Coach, I’ve worked with clients who felt stuck in unhealthy relationship patterns, not realizing they were chasing love from their past. Once they uncovered their unmet childhood needs, everything began to shift. Let me share some stories from my clients who transformed their love lives with inner healing:

 Maya’s Story: From Clingy to Confident

Maya always feared abandonment. Every disagreement with her partner triggered panic, causing her to either cling desperately or withdraw completely. In our sessions, we uncovered how her fear stemmed from her father’s sudden departure during childhood. Through inner child healing and boundary work, Maya learned to soothe her anxiety without needing constant reassurance. Today, she enjoys a secure, loving relationship where disagreements no longer feel like the end of the world.

 Rahul’s Story: Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Love

Rahul found himself tolerating mistreatment, believing that his love could change his partner’s behavior. In our sessions, he realized he was trying to "fix" his partner the way he had tried to "fix" his emotionally unavailable mother as a child. With healing and self-worth work, Rahul stopped settling for less and learned to choose partners who truly valued him.

 Pooja’s Story: From Chaos to Connection

Pooja mistook intensity for love—passionate fights, emotional rollercoasters, and dramatic reconciliations felt like chemistry. In reality, it was trauma bonding. Together, we explored how her chaotic childhood shaped her definition of love. Pooja learned to embrace calm, consistent, and deeply connected relationships—ones that felt safe and nourishing rather than draining.

Dating your unmet childhood needs is like trying to quench a deep thirst with a "mirage" —you keep chasing something that looks like love but never truly satisfies. As children, we learn love from our caregivers. If love came with conditions, neglect, or inconsistency, we subconsciously seek partners who mirror those dynamics—hoping to rewrite the past and finally "win" the love we never fully received.

But here’s the truth:
 It’s not really your partner you’re craving—it’s the feeling of being chosen, nurtured, and finally seen in the way you always longed for.

 No relationship can replace the self-healing that only YOU can give your inner child.
Healthy love starts when you stop looking for someone to fill the gaps and instead learn to hold yourself with the care you once needed from others. 

 Ready to Break Free from Relationship Patterns That Don’t Serve You?

You don’t have to navigate this healing journey alone. Whether you're single, dating, or in a relationship, I can help you:
 Identify and heal your relationship patterns
 Reconnect with your inner child and build self-love
 Attract and sustain healthy, fulfilling relationships

Take the first step toward a new love story—one that starts with YOU.

 Book a private session with me:
Shivanya Yogmayaa – Relationship Coach
 www.journeyintolove.net
 WhatsApp: 72619 50450